UST Man Scandal

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Filipino Chinese Scandal: The Brown Man

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The Dick Show

Nice dick show with cum shot. Watch this!!!

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Red Hot guy

A guy moaning for the sake of sexual satisfaction. Watch this mobile video!!!

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Dick the Face

Cutie pinoy guy showing his face and dick in his own room. Watch this!!!

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Pinoy BJ

A mobile video taken by his boyfriend or his sex mate while he is doing a blow job. Watch it!!!

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Hard Pinoy

A nice body shot and dick shot from pinoy guy, making himself hard. He has a nice body though. Watch this...

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Cute dick

This guy is trying to make himself cute, but he is really cute together with his bullet. Watch this!!!

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Pinoy Standing Erect

This is a real hard on. This guys penis is really hard. Maybe he is so horny. Take a look!!! And enjoy this movie from his own mobile phone.

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Pinoy Chat Stipper

I wonder if how this guy strip in front of someone else. Take a look!!!

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Crying Dick

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Fast Friction

Chatting in your room or maybe in a private cubicle net cafe can give you this idea of jerking all alone. Here is one of those guy doing it. Watch it!!!

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Hot Shot

This is a mobile video from someone who is happy to show his entire body, naked BODY!..

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Boarder Scandal

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Apartment Boy

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Red Head

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Moaning Caucasians

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Straight but Gay

This is a video taken by two bisexuals or maybe gays from Philippines. It is like modeling in porn movies. Body shot i can say.

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Jerking Pinoy

Young gay Filipino jerking with his mobile camera. Take a look.

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Pinoy Exhibitionist

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Pinoy Gay Bath Scandal

Here is one of the most amazing bathtub experience of one Filipino doing self sex. Someone took this video of him while playing his dick in the tub. Have a look.

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Eric Mcintire

Hot Pinoy Scandal

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Ben DiChiara

Dick Stripper

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Jerome Ortiz

Filipino Chinese Scandal

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Eric Winter

Dickies Guy

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Gay Filipino Scandal

This is how liberal the so called bisexuals of the Philippines. Showing the way they have threesome and they are all hunky. Have a look at this few seconds of how Filipino Bisexuals have threesome in their video.

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Chris Austad

Gay Chest

We need to accept the facts that every gay men has its own fetishes. When i mention fetish, it is a sexual desire on someones things or shall i say on somebody's body part. There are those who love to see a guys hair in their under arm and there are those who love to take that guys underwear and have sexual fantasies with that underwear. Well probably it is normal if it would not go beyond the boundary. Chest is one of the fetish that most gay men love to see, with their dream boy wet shirt and the mark of the chest that is so firm and yummy, wow., that is so amazing. Why is it that the guys chest is so attractive to most gay men. Because it is what they can see in a nice body and you can enjoy having sex with your boyfriend if he has a nice bulky chest. So what do you think gay guys, does chest count as one of your sexual desire?

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Bruno Santos

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Boracay (The Temptation Island)

Boracay is one of the famous white beach sand in Philippines. When you say Boracay, it is the hot spot for beach bums, babes, hunky guys, and bisexuals that would include closet gay. It is the temptation island. What you do there will be left in there and no one knows. There are so many tempting people in there. Most probably go in Boracay not to relax but to hunt the next delicious victim or be a victim of the delicious perpetrator. It is either hunter haunted or haunted hunter, all you have to do is choose which one you want to be. There are so many bars in there and wonderful night life and you can sleep everywhere you want and have sex anywhere you want, you can only do that during off season (few visitors are coming in).

Here are some of the guys that you might encounter in Boracay and might be your future boyfriend or can ruin your wealth and relationship. Some sort of advice, before you go into flinging, think gay guys, there are so many good looking guys who are gay, rich and has a wonderful health. So if you are a wealthy gay guy and just haunting for a good looking gay guy (which can drain your wealth later on), i would rather advice you to choose the good looking rich gay guy like you or if not just be cautious enough and be cautious with your health. Remember, Boracay is an island temptation, what you had there might affect your health in the future, avoid having sexually transmitted infection. Play safe, just do hand job, that will do, avoid oral sex, it can transmit neisseria gonorrhea and other STI.

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Dayton Schlosser


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Hugot Film (Indie Film)

Another queer indie film to be release on summer time in Philippines. During this month, it would be a hot hot day for queer folks and this indie film is just the right movie for you to feel more hotter and lively and enjoying the heat of the summer.

Watch "HUGOT"A Digital Queer FilmStarring Ms. Ana Capri

Grand Premiere Showing @ the U.P Film Center, Diliman, Q.C

7 pm April 23, 2008 (Wednesday)

Produced by Wilbert Ting Tolentino

Written and Directed by Jonison Fontanos

Introducing: Jerome Ebreo Christopher Canizares Cris Castillo and Alvin

HUGOT Synopsis

Episode 1: "Raymond"

When Raymond’s youngest sibling, an out-of-school youth, fell victim to a hit-and-run, the obligation to collect money for the hospitalization was left to Raymond. One night, Raymond and his best friend Nolan scoured the entire city to find a victim. They are cell phone snatchers. The transsexual Dorina, fresh from her victory as Miss Gay and P8, 000 richer, would be their prey. However, not only robbery would be committed as the partners in crime would accidentally kill the veteran gay beauty contestant. What destiny awaits the two friends? Raymond’s critical sibling? Will justice be meted

out for the slain gay? Who is the true victim?

Episode 2: "Anton"

Anton’s nightly dreams are evocative: the rice field clothesline where burning garments are hanging, the ash of which gets into his eyes. What do his dreams mean? How are these related to his present anguish and solitude? Will these inspire Anton into finishing his poem-in-progress, the poem for the beloved who left him or whom he left?

Episode 3: "Bimbo"

While youth activists Edward and Bimbo are heading home from a rally, the latter falls to the ground unconscious due to hunger and exhaustion. A middle-aged man helps Edward haul Bimbo’s body. Because the stranger’s apartment is nearby, he offers his place for the two to rest in before going home. When he comes to, Bimbo learns from his friend Edward that they are in an unfamiliar place—the house of Leandro, the stranger. Leandro prepares food for

the young men as Melody, Leandro’s best friend, a funny liberated woman, visits the latter’s pad. They both convinces the boys to spend the n

ight through. The friends agree. They cannot decline the drink offered by Leandro. They become tipsy and their conversation meanders from politics, activism, gay rights and…sex.

Try to watch it and enjoy the heat seansation.

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Brett Bovek

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Homosexuality in the Philippines

In the Philippines, the term gay has been used loosely to include homosexuals, bisexuals, transsexuals, crossdressers, and effeminate men. Filipino gays are mostly stereotyped as effeminate, crossdressers, hairdressers, camp and ridiculed. Bakla or Bading, a derogatory Filipino word for gay, is commonly used; tibo or tomboy has a similar function, and refers to lesbians, usually of the butch and masculine type. A more benign slang word for gay men is billy boy.For Filipino gays, the Tagalog phrase "paglaladlad ng kapa" (literally means "unfurling the cape") refers to the coming-out process. Although gays and lesbians are generally tolerated within Philippine society, there are still widespread cases of discrimination.

Gay Lingo

Swardspeak is a vernacular language derived from Englog and is used by a number of gay Filipinos. It uses elements from Tagalog, English, and Spanish

, and some are from Nippongo, as well as celebrities' names and trademark brands, giving them new meanings in the context of this unique language. A unique trait of swardspeak is that it immediately identifies the speaker as homosexual, making it easy for people of that orientation to signal to each other in a place where such tendencies are not easy to display (ie in the Philippines). This creates an exclusive world among its speakers and helps them to resist cultural assimilation.

By using swardspeak, Filipino gay men are able to resist the dominant culture of their area and create a space of their own. The language is constantly changing, with old phrases becoming obsolete and new phrases frequently entering everyday usage, reflecting changes in their culture and also maintaining exclusivity. The dynamic nature of the language refuses to cement itself in single culture and allows for more freedom in expression among its speakers. Words and phrases can be created out of reaction to popular trends and create alternatives to a strictly defined lifestyle. By these characteristics, swardspeak creates a dissident group without any ties to geographical, linguistic, or cultural restrictions, allowing its speakers to shape the language as appropriate to the times. In this way, the language is "mo

bile", and is simultaneously part of a larger community but also open to more specific or local meanings.

Gay Villages

Malate District, is known as Manila's gay district. It is here where the Gay Pride Parade is held every July.

Other gay areas in the Philippines include:

• Quezon City - Timog
• Legazpi City - Rawis
• Cebu - Mandaue City
• Pagsanjan, Laguna

Filipino GLBT Organizations

ProGay

gay rights organization (Metro Manila)

UP Babaylan

UP Babaylan is the only active and existing campus-based LGBT organization in the Philippines. It is based in the University of the Philippines, Diliman.

LAGABLAB

the Lesbian and Gay Legislative Advocacy Network

Can’t Live in the Closet

lesbian activist group (Metro Manila)

LeAP

lesbian advocates Philippines (Metro Manila)

IWAG

gay social support group (Davao City)

GAHUM

gay support and advocacy (Cebu City)

STRAP

Society of Transsexual WOMEN of the Philippines(M etro Manila)

Order of St. Aelred

spiritual gay center (Metro Manila)

UTOG

union of truly organized gays

Metropolitan Community Church Philippines

a positive ministry for the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender communities in the Phils., a local church of UFMCC; the first pro-glbt church in the world, the first church to hold same sex holy unions in the Philippines

GASAP Gay association based in Las Pinas City

Does Size Matter?

Many people think if does size really matter in sex. Some say that i does and others say it does not, it depends on the high level performance. But does size really matter? Or it depends on how one gay person can take it? Well, let us try to make some points, to clarify this issue. If it talks all about gay guys, size would matter. Why? It is not true that most of the gay men really wanted to have a big huge penis in their boyfriend or vice versa. In fact most gay would rather want to have a medium size. Due to the reason that bigger penis, would create bigger incision in the linings of the anus and it would be painful, so painful not just painful. Although it is nice to have a boyfriend with bigger penis in oral play or handjob, due to its nice and firm composition, but not all gay men are happy with it. It is only in the movie that most gay men would really die for having a boyfriend with bigger penis.

In my experience, i would go for a medium size, not for a bigger one, i am pain conscious, so what will be put inside me should be pain free, although not all the time it is pain free. So what do you think, are you one of those who wish to have a bigger future or medium one. Think!




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Young Gay Men

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Filipino Gay Guys (Daring)

The 21st century has brought a lot of changes in Philippine cultures and practices and the way its guys behave. It seems to be that the guys is behaving badly. What i mean is that guys are becoming more gay than straight. There are so many guys that are so liberal about their sexual preferences and there are those who are not that open to their friends. But most of all, almost 95% of Filipino guys are gays and 45% in that 95% are closet gays or married gay guys. And the rest you can see them in the net, fully naked and exposing theirself, it is like selling theirself to be loved. And few are chosen to be exposed here in Gaything.

These are the New Generation of Young Filipinos.

Daring and Hot! You can have them anywhere in just a matter of nice and hot talks.





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Filipino Scandal ! Extreme!

If actors in the world of entertainment can do it, then every individual can do it as well. They can strip in their camera and send it to their cyber friends and have their friends imagine what they are doing. Have a look at this video, or shall i call the 3gp scandal of a guy, showing his own loads.

Before it was just all about phone sex. Today it is just in every individuals hand. A single push on the digi cams, webcams, and mobile phones button, there you go, the show is on. Free, no hassle, no credit card to use, all you have to do is be friendly with your chat mate and you can have what you wanted. Amazing. Most gay guys are doing it and i was doing it myself. Visit

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Washington named 8th gayest city in U.S.

The District of Columbia, if counted among the states, is the gayest. Among U.S. cities, it’s the eighth gayest. And the number of same-sex couples identifying their relationship in U.S. Census surveys is five times larger now than it was when the information was first collected on a national scale in 1990.

Those are just some of the conclusions found in “Geographic Trends Among Same-Sex Couples in the U.S. Census and the American Community Survey,” a study released Nov. 2. The study was prepared by Gary Gates, a senior research fellow at the Williams Institute, a research center at UCLA for sexual orientation, law and policy studies. Gates examined data from the 1990 and 2000 decennial surveys of every household in the United States and data from the annual “American Community Surveys” for the years 2002 through 2006.

His report shows that the 2006 Census Bureau data estimates there are 779,867 same-sex couples in the United States — up from 145,130 who self-identified in the 1990 decennial census.

In the District of Columbia, the number of same-sex couples went from 2,213 counted in 1990 and 3,678 counted in 2000 to a slight drop to 3,520 estimated in 2006.

When those numbers are examined in relation to the overall number of households, D.C.’s ranking has slipped. In 1990, it ranked fifth among cities in the concentration of same-sex couples, with 8.89 same-sex couples for every 1,000 households. In 2000, it dropped to sixth, even though its concentration was higher —14.81 per 1,000. But between 2004 and 2006, it dropped again, to eighth, as did its concentration — to 13.49 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. (When assessing the concentration of same-sex couples reported in the annual community surveys, Gates used an average from the three years 2004, 2005 and 2006.)

But if D.C. is compared to other states (as it often is in various population-based studies), its 13.49 same-sex couples per 1,000 households in the last three years of surveys made it the gayest state. The next-highest concentration was found in Vermont, which had 9.71 same-sex couples per 1,000.

Maryland ranks No. 13 among states, with 7.28 same-sex couples per 1,000 households; Virginia ranks 27th, with 6.38 same-sex couples per 1,000.

Gates says his analysis “allows us to measure the closet” — the number of people who were unwilling to self-identify as gay — between 1990 and 2006.

“And it gives us a clue about what states might be turning a little more purple,” he said, referring to the identification of state voting records as trending toward Democratic (blue) or Republican (red).

Utah, he said, was the most dramatic in both respects. In regard to the concentration of same-sex couples, Utah ranked number 38 in 1990. But in 2006, it ranked 14th.

“It’s now one of the gayest states in the country,” Gates said. That finding stands in contrast to what many think of Utah — a Mormon-dominated population that is hostile to gays.

Also among Gates’ findings:

• Among states, Vermont has the highest concentration of same-sex couple households (9.71 per 1,000 households); followed by New Mexico (9.03), Massachusetts (8.99), Washington (8.94) and Oregon (8.83).
• Among cities, San Francisco continues to reign as the gayest U.S. city, based on its concentration of same-sex households (28.72 per 1,000). Seattle comes second (21.27), followed by Minneapolis (18.68), Portland, Ore., (16.94), and Sacramento, Calif., (16.36).
• Of the 779,867 same-sex couples in 2006, the data estimates that 53.5 percent are male couples and 46.5 percent are female couples.

Comparing population trends of the public at large and those of same-sex couple households, Gates found evidence suggesting more same-sex couples are moving from the city to the suburbs.

The greatest surge in the number of reported same-sex couple households occurred between the 1990 census, when the census form first provided an option for same-sex couples to identify themselves, and 2000. In 2000, the 594,391 same-sex couples were more than three times the 145,130 identified in 1990. The increase between 2000 and 2006 was 185,476 couples, or a 31 percent increase.

The concentration of same-sex couples to all households grew from 1.56 per 1,000 in 1990 to 5.61 per 1,000 in 2000 and 6.79 per 1,000 for 2004-2006.

While the decennial survey numbers are based on a questionnaire that the Census Bureau tries to have every household in the country fill out, the American Community Survey is an annual questionnaire sent out to only about 3 million households nationwide — about 250,000 each month. At the end of the year, the data is put together and a calculation provides an estimate of the national total for that year. Gates said he used an average from the years 2004-2006 because the community survey samples are “still relatively small compared to the Census,” and, thus, a single-year ranking of a city or state can vary substantially.

Gates said the questions asked on each of the surveys were “exactly the same,” but noted that the Census Bureau has made improvements in how it counts same-sex couples. He also said that, while the annual community survey is an estimate — compared to the actual head count of the decennial census — the jump in numbers between 2000 and 2006 is still statistically significant.

And politically significant, too.

Gates said his analysis indicates that the largest increases in the number of same-sex couple households occurred in the most politically conservative areas. For instance, states where the public voted on constitutional amendments to ban same-sex marriage, saw, on average, a 41 percent increase in the number of same-sex couple households between 2000 and 2006. States that did not consider constitutional bans saw only a 27 percent increase.

States that have some form of legal recognition of same-sex relationships saw an increase of 23 percent in the number of same-sex households, compared to states that provided no recognition, which rose by 32 percent.

“If this many people are coming out and being more visible,” Gates said, “over the next couple of years, gay issues aren’t going to have the sort of political resonance they’ve had in the past.”

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Gerald Anderson Sex Scandal?

Found this video scandal and i tried to look at it and it look like someone i knew from the world of entertainment (Philippine Entertainment). The guy that i am talking about is Gerald Anderson, a new teen actor from the Pinoy Big Brother House teen edition. Maybe just maybe this scandal was owned by someone who look like him or maybe it is his own scandal before he enter into the world of entertainment. Who do you think is the guy? Have a look at the still photo and decide.

The Gerald Andersom Scandal

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BEING BLIND AND GAY

Robert Feinstein

I was born on December 1, 1949. I was three months early, and only weighed 1lb. 14oz. I was put into an incubator and, due to the amount of oxygen I was given, my retina cells developed too quickly, and became so damaged that by the time I was brought home from the hospital, I was totally blind. I of course have never seen and have absolutely no visual memories at all.

My parents decided that they would try to treat me as normally as possible, and although I often heard the word "blind" I did not really know what it meant. I was guided by my mother, or by my aunts. I was always made a fuss over because people said I was such a "cute little boy". Many lamented my fate, but I was carefree and happy. When I was about 5 years old, I began to realize that I was different from other children. I heard children running around without being guided. Kids talked about coloring, drawing, and writing with a pencil. When I asked my mother, she told me that I would go to school and learn to read and write braille. I knew I was different, but I of course did not understand the ramifications of my blindness, and took all in stride.

ALL I COULD DO
was listen to the sound of the chalk

When I was about 8 years old, I began to realize that other kids made friends more easily than I did. I went to a school far from my home, and was taken there by bus. There were other blind kids at the school, and I noticed that we all stayed together. When we did go to classes with the sighted kids, we were treated kindly, but were not fully included. I would sit for hours listening to kids read out loud from print books, or hear the teacher writing on the black board. I loved the sound the chalk made against the blackboard, but I realized that others could read what was being written, and all I could do was listen to the sound of the chalk.

I will skip a few years and talk about when I was 14 years old, and in the ninth grade. I began to be teased by the other blind kids, because I mostly wanted to play with the girls, and did not want to participate in the rough games the blind boys played. They would play a kind of hockey with a large wardrobe and a crushed cigarette box. Where the wardrome touched the wall on each side were the goals and the cigarette box was the puck. The blind kids played another game called taxi, where one of us would sit in a chair and the other would move the chair around the room very quickly. Because we were blind, the person pushing the chair would often bang into things.

I was afraid of these games because I was always overweight, slow, clumsy, and I usually wound up getting badly hurt. I much preferred sitting and reading a braille book, or talking to the girls. I even learned to bounce a ball, and learned some of the rhymes the girls would say while playing ball or jumping rope. I was teased unmercifully, and soon, even the girls got tired of playing with me, and so I mostly stayed alone, reading, and listening to what was going on around me.

I knew that I was very different from the other kids, and I felt horribly lonely. I didn't fit in with the sighted kids, but what was worse, I didn't fit in with the blind kids, either. All the boys were interested in sports and rough games. I wasn't. Some talked about girls, but because I was blind from birth, and because nobody ever talked to me about sex, I had no idea what was being discussed. I am ashamed to say that I didn't even know the difference between girls and boys, except that girls were usually nicer to me, and yet, I felt a strange feeling when hugging a male student.

When I was 15 years old, a girl explained to me how babies were born. "You're very stupid!" Harriet told me. "Your father stuck his penis in your mother's hole, and that's how you were born. Don't you know anything?" I wanted to ask more questions. Where was this hole? What was all this talk about "hard-ons" and "erections?" But I knew that if I admitted how little I knew, I'd be laughed at, so I kept quiet. I could not ask my mother. She never talked about such things, and I knew she would only be upset and tell me not to ask so many questions. So, I ordered books in braille about sex, and read them, and had a vague understanding.

What is surprising, and very important, is that I began to realize that I was attracted to other boys and men, and not to women. I realized that I had a strange feeling when close to people of my own sex that I did not have when I was with women. I somehow knew that this was not the way it should be, and never mentioned it to anyone.

I TRIED DATING GIRLS,
but I knew it wasn't working.

I will now talk about my college years. I spent 4 years at a well known college in Ohio. I had finally figured out that I was gay. I wondered if there were other gay students, but did not know how to meet them. I tried dating girls, and forced myself to kiss them, but I knew it wasn't working. I wanted to talk about my feelings, but had nobody to express them to. When I was a senior, some students who I had heard were gay decided to start a discussion group. I wanted to go, but was afraid to ask for directions to where the discussion was taking place, because I did not want others on campus to realize I was gay.

To understand my dilemma, it is important to realize that I was not able to fit in with the other students because of my blindness. I had some casual friends, but I was not part of any social group. I spent much time alone, or being read to by fellow students. I therefore was very uneasy about admitting that I was gay, because I was afraid I would be even more unaccepted than I already was. I felt that I had enough strikes against me by virtue of the fact that I was blind and overweight. I didn't have the courage to add another problem to the list. During my four years at college, I never had any gay friends, and never even knew that one of my roommates was gay. I kept all of my feelings inside.

Now, I must talk about my two years in France. I went to France through an American program, and I stayed there for two years. I arrived in France after my graduation from college. I met two blind guys who were gay. One was a fellow from Algeria, and the other was a blind French guy. I had my first experiences with them. I wanted desperately to meet other French gay people, but was afraid to ask my classmates. I had no access to printed materials, and no way to try to meet French gay people.

I WAS READY
to conquer the gay world!

When I returned from France, I got a job working with non-English speaking kids who needed help with reading and speaking English. I badgered my parents until they helped me get my own little studio apartment. I still live in this apartment, as rents are very high in NYC, and I am presently on a fixed income because I took an early retirement. But getting back to my story: when I finally had my apartment, I decided I was going to try to meet gay people. I was now free from my parent's restrictions, and I had a guide dog. So, I was ready to conquer the gay world! But how could I find information? I had nobody to read printed material to me dealing with gay subjects. I had no way to know who was gay and who wasn't. I wondered how sighted gay people met. I finally called a gay hotline and was given the names and addresses of some gay bars. I was told about a group called "mirth and girth" which is for overweight gay people. (In Montreal, I think the group exists under the name Club Panda.)

I remember my excitement when my guide dog and I set out for our first gay bar. We got off the subway at Christopher Street, a street in the heart of Greenwich Village. I asked for directions to the bar, but once inside, I realized that this wasn't going to work! First of all, the noise level was incredible! I couldn't hear a thing. Second of all, because I couldn't see, I had no idea what was going on around me. I was basically rendered deaf and blind because of the noise level. I sat at the bar, and felt worse and worse as time went by. Nobody tried to talk to me. I finally got the courage to tap the person next to me, and to try to strike up a conversation. The guy was polite, but after talking with him a while, he told me he was with someone. I realized that I had no way of knowing who was alone, who was with someone, and what was going on. I went to other bars on subsequent days, but had no better luck.

I began to realize that being blind was proving to be a barrier in my meeting gay people. I decided that, perhaps the problem was the fact that I was overweight. So, I decided to go to a Mirth and Girth dance. Surely, there would be people much heavier than I was, and surely I'd have a better time. Well, unfortunately, the same thing happened. I was shown to a seat, and there I stayed. Nobody came over to talk to me. I finally left and vowed I would never try to meet gay people in this way. It wasn't working, and I was feeling worse about being blind and being gay than I ever had in the past.

I AM DISAPPOINTED
with the gay community.

What is my situation now? Well, I am 47 years old. I have very few gay friends. I have strong opinions, though. Basically, I am disappointed with the gay community, at least in NYC. I had thought that, because of the horrors of Aids, gay people would be sensitized to the needs of others. But this hasn't been my experience. It seems that the gay community is ready to help those who become blind from Aids. They reach out to those suffering from Aids. This is how it should be. But this compassion does not extend to those of us who are gay and blind for other reasons. What I am about to say may sound harsh, but it seems to me that if you are a person with aids, you gain a certain respect, even a certain prestige in the gay community. Organizations are set up to help meet your needs. You are included, and you are helped. But if you are just an ordinary gay person with a disability, you don't have that certain "mystique". You are made to feel like you do not belong.

I know that many people with HIV suffer visual problems, and I would like to see more communication between people born blind like me and those who went blind later in life from HIV complications. I think we could teach each other a great deal, and broaden each other's horizons. For example, I know what it is like living with blindness, but these people had careers and lived a full gay lives, something that has been denied to me. I now have one friend who is losing his sight. He was a costume designer, and he has been a wonderful resource for me; he says I have helped him, too, so it has grown into a great friendship. I wish gay organizations would open their hearts to those of us who are not blind from Aids or HIV, but who who do need help with readers and companionship.

Imagine walking down a heavily gay populated street. You see a blind person with his guide dog. You probably don't stop to ask yourself, "Is he gay? Could he want to talk? Would we have something in common?"

I WANT TO HAVE a few buddies
I can feel a closeness to.

I hope that I have been able to give you a glimpse of what life is like for me as a totally blind and gay man. I also hope that I will make some new friends and meet some people who will accept me for who I am, and who will be able to look beyond my blindness. What is sad to me is that I have met some exceptionally kind gay women, and some straight men, with whom I have become friendly. But I want to have more gay male friends. I want to be able to talk with other gay men, take walks with them, have things described to me, have things read to me that pertain to gay topics, and have a few buddies who I can feel a closeness to.

I ask only that I be accepted for who I am. It is of course important to realize that certain things are a must. First of all, it is imperative that any new friends I make understand that I need help with certain tasks: being guided, having things read to me, and having movies described. Also, it is important that anyone wanting to get to know me understand that my dog comes with me. I will never permit anyone to try to tell me I cannot enter with my dog, whether it be a restaurant, or a taxi. So I ask any new friends to respect my dog and his work and devotion to me.

Once I make a friend, with time and patience, my blindness becomes less of an issue. In fact, a close friend of mine who comes to read my mail every week, has told me that he just takes it as a matter of course. He guides me easily and knows that "No dog, no Bob!"

Remember, whether we can see or not, whether we can hear or not, whether we can walk or not, we are all human beings with the same needs, desires, wants, dreams, and hopes. We are not as different as our outward appearance would make you think at first glance


Post Script

A version of this article first appeared in a French Canadaian magazine. I've become less isolated than I was when I wrote that original version, and my thanks goes to Penpal Connection, which reprinted it on their website; thanks also to all of you who have written to me. hope you will continue to do so. I still dream of a special friend who will love me, and accept me and Harley as a team.


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Being Gay Guy

A homosexual person of either sex; usually used in conjunction with the homosexual culture and community.
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Born Gay or a Choice?
The most commonly accepted explanation for why it is that some people are same-sex orientated, while others are only attracted to the opposite sex, has to do with the idea that it is somehow related to genetics. However, there are those in the gay community who are just as adament that their homosexuality was a conscious choice. They freely decided to be gay. Although, the argument for the "gay gene" is still theoretical, there is something in the choice approach that speaks of intellectual honesty. The first is easier to use in justifying one's gayness but the second will obviously demand a more carefully thought out explanation should one feel it necessary to explain his/her sexual preference.
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The Gay Lifestyle...
Gay men, like their female counterparts come in a multitude of shapes, forms, and types. Not only do they run the course of every body type imaginable but they range from macho masculine to extremely effeminate (including transvestites who are female crossdressers). They can be very quiet people whose sexuality is known by no one (referred to as living in "stealth mode"), including immediate family members, to openly aggressive men who use intimidation to get what they want. In between are every kind and gay type. Like heterosexual people, they are both varied and complex.
Their social life includes the same interests, activities, and hobbies that others might enjoy. The only marked difference would be the gay bars and clubs that are found throughout our cities. No doubt, most straight people would feel uncomfortable in such a setting. The clubs can range from a casual dance atmosphere to a leather bar for the more macho type of homosexual man.
Whatever their preference or choices, they are indeed human beings placed on this planet for the time that they are given. They hurt, laugh, dream, and have hopes for the future. To love and be loved is just as much a part of their makeup as any person.
They are human beings.
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The Bible vs. Homosexuality Issue...
The Biblical account of God's destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, whether it is to be taken literally or allegorically, represents a strong indication of the Deity's condemnation (as well as that of Biblical literalists who follow His teachings) of those who are "without natural affection." Yet, there are those in the gay community who believe themselves to be very spiritual minded while attending their own churches, including those who profess to be born-again Christians. However, they still do not readily find acceptance amongst heterosexuals who are associated with mainline Christian churches.
Many gay people feel that an attempt to somehow justify the teachings of the Bible (those who are "without natural affection") with their own homosexuality is necessary. From an analytical standpoint, the need to destroy the Biblical credibility asserting that it is a book of myths is, in fact, an admission of guilt in itself. If one were to be intellectually honest about the issue, that would have to be the only possible conclusion.
The bottom line is that gay people are who and what they are. If Sodom was filled with them, then San Francisco represents nothing new in the history of mankind. Although, one might argue that the city's tendency to fall apart during an earthquake is a fulfillment of the "destroyed by fire and brimstone" scenario and is, therefore, a clear indication of God's wrath. However, the fact that they keep rebuilding it, while finding no human bodies which have been turned into pillars of salt, rather defeats the argument.
The bottom line is that all of us make decisions in life. Some of them result in all good things; some of them bring terrible consequenses. Nevertheless, one has to deal with the consequences of his/her own choices. So, the takeaway here is that feeling the necessity to minimize God in their thinking to justify their sexual lifestyle could very well indicate an individual's inability to accept their own homosexuality.

Gay Issues...
The homosexual community has come out of the closet. As a result, it now finds itself facing many complex and complicated issues such as same-sex marriages, palimony law suits, the HIV epademic, homophobia, etc. All of these concerns affect gay people in some measure.
However, one of the greatest challenges facing gays is that of acceptance (or the lack of it) by the heterosexual community. It lies at the base of all of their social issues. For gay men, this is especially true. Since lesbians, transsexuals, transgendered, and intersexual people have a kind of sensual attraction to the general population, they are more tolerated. That is not to say that they don't experience critcism and abuse. The point here is that men are basically the more violent of the two sexes and those who feel that their masculinity is threatened by the presence of a homosexual man are more apt to express their disdain. This has been historically evidenced over and over again in situations where gay men have been physically attacked and even murdered.
Interestingly enough, those who have been the most brutal and violent toward gay people also claim to represent God. As a result, those who are gay have an inbred fear of Christians; especially those of the fundamentalist persuasion. One wonders if such believers were to take the command of their Saviour more seriously in regard to God so loving the "world that He gave His only begotten Son" what a difference it might make in the willingness of homosexual people to listen to their Gospel.
There are more things in this world than most of us can begin to imagine, let alone comprehend or experience. In the lives of gay people there are issues that straight people cannot truly relate to or understand. As one gay young man said to his father, "It's a tough life, but it's the one I have chosen to live no matter what happens."
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Gay Relationships...
In contrast, gay men are not as monogomous as female homosexuals. In fact, the general perception is that they are extremely promiscuous. In some cases, this perception is much deserved. Hearing such men boast of having had a thousand lovers in their lives has only enforced this false concept. The truth is that, like any young man, they go through the same stage of over-experimenting when the "Pandora's Box" of sexuality is first opened wide. However, the basic human need for friendship, companionship, and intimately relating to someone special eventually kicks in. As a result, the time comes when they settle into what are more stable relationships--some for a lifetime.
In a world dominated by heterosexuals, those who have chosen the gay lifestyle are not understood in the same context that the word "love" implies. Yet, the reality is that there is little difference except for the fact that these are same-sex relationships.
Romance is not limited to heterosexuals. It is alive and well amongst all those who belong to the gay community, whether they be men, women, bisexuals, or transsexuals, etc.
Even though our society has become more tolerant of those who choose this lifestyle, there are still many who cannot or will not accept gay people. The challenge to live peaceably and in harmony with those around them is a constant one that will never go away. Whether it's a passing stranger whose expression denotes disapproval or a beloved family member who feigns love without providing any support, there will always be those who focus only on their sexuality while failing to recognize them as real people.
Disagree with their choice if you will, but keep in mind that people are human beings regardless of their sexual orientation. How we treat each other goes a long way in demonstrating our own humanity, or lack of it.

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Where is it?

Looking for guy and girls in the streets are to easy and infact you can have them anytime you want. But how about those gay guys, where to find them? It is so hard to locate them, especially if your gaydar can not detect a wide range of people or unable to distinguish who is gay. Well worry no more. As i grew up, i learnt that looking for gay guys are so easy, all you have to do is be vigilant and know their gestures. Gestures that somehow can connect your commonalities. Here are some place where you can catch a gay guy or maybe you can hvae your next boyfriend.

First, try to enroll yourself in one of your local gym. When i talk all about gym, it is body building work out, rarely you can find those gays in other gym. Local work out gym has an enormous number of gay guys. They could be closet or sometimes open. All you have to do is look for them. When they look at you more than twice, then go gay, it is your chance. When he talk to you in the toilet or while you are in the comfort room, oh my, he wanted your number and when he wanted you to help him weighing those heavy equipment, then you are on the go, but make sure you can carry it.

Second, bar hopping. Hopp like a grasshopper, i mean go to different bars. Except if you are in Western Country then you can go directly to gay bars but if you are in a conservative countries, then you will going to have hard time looking for gay bars. All you have to do is go to your local bars. I know there are bisexuals in there or gays and all you have to do is give them a glance of a nice smile and stare them nice.

Third, unknown but now becoming famous, go to your local spa or bathhouse, i know there are so many gay guys in there, not just once but quadruples or maybe more than that. Just join them in the bath and you will enjoy it.

Fourth, join in the sport clubs or maybe be an athletes. You will going to have a chance seeing them naked including yourself. Best sports ever is swimming. Enroll yourself, but make sure it is not for pensioners pool.

Fifth, just catch them in your school or maybe join male pageants. There are so many courses in colleges and universities thatoffer a number of gay students. One of them is arts and maybe now a days, medical courses are being invaded by us.

Lastly, join the military or maybe airforce. But you need to be firm and at the same time gentle inside. It is hard to find who is gay in this type of group but 10 out of 5 are gay, for sure.

Now you don not have reasons why you do not have a boyfriend.

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Openly Gay Army Sergeant Darren Manzella to Receive Award!

WASHINGTON, (PRNewswire-USNewswire) — Tipper Gore, Ambassador Michael Guest, and Rep. Shelley Berkley (D-NV) will be among the speakers at the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) 16th annual national dinner.
The event, which will honor Army Sergeant Darren Manzella, will take place at 6:30pm Saturday, March 8th at the National Building Museum in Washington, D.C.
Manzella, an openly gay medic featured on the December 16th edition of the CBS news magazine, 60 Minutes, will accept the group’s Barry Winchell Courage Award. The award, named for the slain Army Private First Class whose murder in 1999 sparked national outrage and debate over “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” is given in recognition of a man or woman who has shown courage in speaking openly and honestly about the plight of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender service personnel.
“We are enormously proud to honor Darren for his honesty, integrity and service to our country,” said SLDN executive director Aubrey Sarvis. “Darren is living proof of something we have long known — lesbian, gay and bisexual troops are serving now, and have always served, in our armed forces. And when they speak openly and honestly, their colleagues and commanders are ready to accept them.

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Gay Confession

The world is now facing different gay confessions, from the local individuals up to the world of entertainment. Maybe because this is how liberal the nations are. Or maybe, the local community is already accepting the gay community. Once of those recent gay confession from the world of entertainment were Aj Dee and Rustom Padilla. Tremendous it brought to the nation but what they can do, it was and is what they wanted. And there are also many teengers and college boys not to mention the professionals. Here is the little background of the famous gay confession profiles.

AJ Dee

Country: Philippines

Occupation: Model/Actor

Real Name: Angel James Dee

He hosts the Wanna Buzz segment every Sunday on The Buzz, made his bigscreen debut in the Piolo Pascual-Bea Alonzo Valentine starrer Dreamboy, and is cast in ABS-CBN’s newest primetime teleserye, Vietnam Rose, with Maricel Soriano in the lead. That makes AJ one of the more recognizable faces among the young stars on TV today. He is being co-managed by ABS-CBN’s Star Magic and Boy Abunda’s Backroom, Inc.

Name: Rustom Padilla

Country: PhilippinesReal

Name: Rustom Cariño Padilla

Occupation: Actor

The 90s saw Rustom Padilla as one of the most popular leading men in local movies. The decade also saw him being displaced by the downtrend experienced by the film industry. “The arena for stars became the television stations,” said Rustom. “Actors like me were without a home studio. Suddenly, all things changed, and I was caught in between.”

He reinvented himself and surfaced as a game show host. The new persona, however, did not last. Rustom then left for the US and studied filmmaking.

“I’ve always wanted to direct films,” Rustom confided.

For three years, he relished the freedom that anonymity had afforded him. He lived alone, far from showbiz gossip that has continued to hound him after his failed marriage to actress Carmina Villaroel.
“I sorted out my problems by myself,” said Rustom. “I didn’t want to involve anybody else in my problems. I was the only one who could solve these problems anyway. I didn’t want Carmina to be involved in them. But she is the only person that I could talk to about my problems.”
There was a time that they still hanged out together even after their marriage was annulled. They would still bump into each other occasionally and still have common friends.

“I would always ask these friends to say hi to Carmina for me,” said Rustom.

He denied that he married Carmina only to shroud his real sexuality.

At that time, I was truly and madly in love with her,” said Rustom. “Our marriage was not for show. It was very real.”

At 38, Rustom is planning another showbiz comeback. But this time, it would be behind the camera.

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Gay Guys wants!!!

Believe it or not, most gay guys have their own categories for making a gay guy, a straight guy or a bisexuals their boyfriend or live in partner. And probably you have this qualifications you want as well. Most Filipino gays or bisexuals as they call themselves have this number of qualifications before they want you to be boyfriend.

First, you should be drooling handsome. Having a good looking boyfriend is a million dollar jackpot, especially if that boyfriend of yours is also a gay guy.

Second, having a nice perfect abs or maybe lean will work. Having these guys are the most amazing things in once gays life. You don't need to imagine someone while having sex with your boyfriend that he has this wonderful body. But you have it and enjoying it right then and there.

Third, a professional or a bachelor's degree holder. Most Filipino gay guys want to have this professional partners, whom they can have a wonderful conversation under the sun, or maybe on the bed.

Fourth, if not a degree holder maybe a high school student will work most of the time to those oldies. Maybe because the teenagers have this undiscovered world and fresh and a little twinks.

Fifth, probably the one with a car. Most gay men want to have a boyfriend with a gay guy that has a car, not just that they would have an easy transportation, they can have this one as their weapon for show off.

And lastly, faithful maybe, but most faithful are not honest or maybe vice versa. Either one of that characteristic will work.

But make sure, before setting this qualifications, you should be also gorgeous or if not an irresistible wealth that you can have everything you want. Or maybe try to find a simple guy first, especially if you are simple.








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Most beautiful man in the entire planet. Considered to be one of the gay or not? Antnni Messina, one of the most beautiful supermodel in the entire planet, that holds the December 2007 most beautiful living man.

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Eyeball or SEB

Filipino cute teenagers and college boy or even professional gay men are into this so called ëyeball", a term used by many people in Philippines as to dating someone you have not met or "sex eyeball"having sex with the total strangers, you just knew each other by false name or real name and unknown sex health. Mostly you can see this is local chatrooms in Philippines, once two person liked each other, they will set a meeting place where they want to meet and what are the colors of their shirts, pants and shoes and worst their hairstyle. But this eyeball has an ups and downs. Like you will going to met with a guy that you don't like at all and you need to spend an hour of chit chat and nonsense issues. Then you will going to spend money to the strangers and who will pay for the motel or place where you are going to have intimate night. And worst, your eyeball does not like you and left you...

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To be or not to be...Gay!

Many Actors in the Philippines that looks like gay, either they could be vain or just cozy enough to be like gay. And it is so hard to identify if who is the real M and the G as they say. I have encountered so many gay people that say they are not gay, they are bisexuals, which in fact they walk like a duck that throw its whole pelvic bone from side to side. And there are some that say they have never had sex with a guy, but in fact they had since they knew that sex is wonderful. Well, catching a gay guy now a day is just a stare of a glance, and there you go, your gaydar will fully function.
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Gay networking

Most of the gay and bisexual teenagers now a days are into this web networking. First they will going into local chat rooms and then talk if where will they meet. And most often this web networking is the basis if they will going to meet this local guys or not, according to their physical aspects. And one of the famous web networking in Asia, especially in Philippines is the Friendster, where most of the hot gays and hot lads are there, unfortunately some of the profile is in private. Moreover, Outpersonal and Gayfriendfinder is another gay networking abroad, known by its widely collected men inside.

Now you have a variety of networking site to get.

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How to Know If a Boyfriend Will Be Abusive

He's sweet, attentive and charming. He may be everything you ever wanted. Or he may be the worst thing that ever happens to you. How can you tell if your new boyfriend will turn out to be an abusive boyfriend? Take a close look at his behavior. The following steps will help you identify abusive signs.

Step 1:
Listen to what he says to you. If he calls you names or says hurtful things to you, get rid of him. He may claim that he was only teasing and that you should learn to take a joke. Or he may say that he was angry and didn't mean what he said. Neither excuse is acceptable.

Step 2:
Examine his jealousies. It's normal for a boyfriend to be jealous if you're talking to another guy (especially an ex-boyfriend), but it's not normal to be jealous of your family members or female friends. If he tries to keep you from spending time with other people or if he wants to be with you whenever you're with other people, get rid of him.

Step 3:
Watch your boyfriend's moods. If they change too quickly, and if he blames you for his bad moods, get rid of him. If you have to watch everything you say and do for fear of "setting him off," then he's controlling your behavior.

Step 4:
See if he respects your privacy. If he insists on knowing who you're talking to on the phone, if he goes through your purse, your mail or your checkbook, if he is constantly checking to see where you are and what you're doing, your boyfriend could possibly have an abusive tendency. Dump him.

Step 5:
Question his motives. Often what seems to be a desire to take care of you is really a desire to control you. If he encourages you not to get your driver's license or buy a car because he wants to drive you everywhere, if he wants you to quit work and depend on him for money or if he wants you to wear only clothes that he buys for you, get rid of him.

Step 6:
Consider your boyfriend's treatment of other people. If he's judgemental, intolerant and impatient with everyone else or if he wants everything his own way and refuses to consider the preferences or needs of others, get rid of him. Remember this adage: How he treats the waiter is how he'll treat you.